New car bumpers are formed and moulded from a type of plastic under tremendous heat that shapes and moulds them. When these bumpers become damaged through impact, if the surface of the bumper is not pierced it can be repaired. If you took a hammer to the inside of the bumper in an attempt to beat out the dent you would end up with a lot of indentations and high spots, not making a very good repair. However if you just applied enough heat to the back of the damaged area the plastic just pops back into the correct shape giving a good repair, (the molecules of the plastic bumper remember their correct configuration at their point of formation during the heat process that manufactured the bumper.) In this example the hammer is the very forceful and adversarial aspect and the heat is the loving creator of the plastic bumper. When we remember how to apply love to our own judged qualities (beliefs) they convert back into pure unconditional love, the true makeup of who we really are.